Young Life

On this blog I have already mentioned Young Life several times. This is because it is one of the most important pieces of my life here in Ohio. In fact, last year when I was trying to figure out what to do and where to go after college the first thing that I felt God telling me was that I needed to stay in the Springfield area so that I could still be involved in Young Life.

Young Life is a high school outreach ministry. Leaders are assigned to high schools and the teams of leaders at each high school reach out to kids in three big ways; club, campaigners and contact work.

I was assigned to Southeastern High School in South Charleston, OH. I serve there with three co-leaders: Nicole, Dave and Kyle (in the photo L-R).

Nicole and Dave are a married couple and Kyle is a Cedarville student. I am really lucky to have them as my "COs" because we get along really well as a team and they are so fun to be around.

To explain the basics of YL:

CLUB-is an hour-long time of singing, playing games, doing stupid skits, and basically having fun and making kids laugh. At the end one of the leaders shares part of the gospel for about 10 minutes. We progress from explaining who Christ is to what He did to why He died. Club is for kids who don't know who Jesus is and are probably not going to church to learn about Him. At Southeastern we are unique because we

have club on Thursday mornings before the kids go to school. We have three old men who cook breakfast for them, we have club and then send them to school right down the street. It is the best way to start the day!

Campaingers- is a bible study we have every Thursday night. It is a great time to talk to kids in depth and for most of them it's the only time all week that they read or talk about the Bible.

Contact Work- is basically just hanging out with kids and getting to them. It starts out with

having fun but it usually grows into sharing my heart with them and listening to them talk about their lives. I go to a lot of high school sporting events, plays, coffee dates and the county fair to hang out with my kids. (That's me and my girls at camp ->)

Being involved in Southeastern Young Life has been the best part of living in Ohio. I grew up hearing about my mom's adventures as a Young Life leader (yes, I am second-generation!) and I knew that her YL relationships were still a huge part of her life. So, even before I knew all the details of YL and before I made these relationships I knew that God was going to use Young Life in my life and it was going to be a great thing.

Because of being a leader I get to stand in front of 40+ kids and talk about Jesus AND I get to

listen to the details of girls' lives and talk about Jesus. I have been challenged in huge ways and have done things I never thought I would do (Exhibit A: I ran a half-marathon with 14 other leaders to raise money for our kids ->)

I am sure I will write about Young Life and my time at Southeastern more on this blog so I am glad that you can know understand a little bit more about it :)

Roommates

So, one of the best parts of this summer has been living in a real house with roommates. I feel that living with other people is such a good learning and growing experience and I am blessed to get to do it with two awesome girls.

We live in a house called "the dup", short for The Duplex. It's owned by our Young Life area director. He rents out one side to three girls and the other side to two guys. We are all Young Life leaders so our house is also a hang-out for high school kids. Because the house has typically been rented by college or just-out-of-college people there have been many residents in the last few years. We still get mail for most of them. In fact, since I've lived here we have received mail for about 20 different people.

My two roommates are Claire and Ainsley.

Claire (middle) is a middle school teacher at Northwestern Middle School. Claire and I get to hang out a lot and I most enjoy her sense of humor and her listening skills. Claire is referred to by our friends as "the mom" and she did a really good job taking care of me when I was sick.

Ainsley (left) is a high school teacher at Northwestern High School. Ains is often gone, because she is a tennis coach and she hangs out with her family in Columbus but I enjoy when she is around because we have similar personalities and she sings (off-key and loudly) all the time.

Our next-door neighbors, who share a porch, basement and laundry room with us, are Ryan and Hank:

Ryan (we call him by his last name: Fulk) (left) is a bank teller. I appreciate Fulk because he owns more movies than any other individual I know and I often borrow them.

Hank (right) is a student at Wright State. Hank is the other person I spent a lot of time with this summer. Hank has a bad habit of walking into our house yelling for me while I am napping on the couch. Hank's most common phrase to me is "bring it on into Hug Harbor". Hank has filled the role of little brother in my every day life....since I can't be with my four actual younger brothers.

These four guys (Ryan, Chris, Dave and Kyle) have also spent a lot of time at our house this summer, from living her for a few weeks to spending nights in a fort on the boys side.

I have loved living in community with these people.

I have sewed the shorts of two of the guys. (I tried to tell them that sewing the crotch of khaki shorts was a bad idea but they weren't convinced) They have fixed my car and driven me places when I was sick.

I watched the guys attempt to perform surgery on each other (to remove a bump....I actually recorded this on video) and have listened to many farting noises (That's what happens when you get high school boys and their YL leaders together). We make dinner together, do each other's laundry, and wash each other's dishes. We have played a lot of Banangrams (I usually win) and Phase10 and watched movies together (we watched The Sandlot twice this summer). We have bonfires and pie-eating contests. We bike and go for walks.

We recommend books, memorize Scripture and talk about what God is teaching us. We pray together and for each other. It has been a blessing to share my life with them and see God working in theirs. I am treasuring this time to be young and independent but also interdependent on other young believers. They have become my Ohio family :)

Safe

This has been an interesting summer. It is the first time I have ever truly lived on my own. As in I paid rent and utilities and I bought my own groceries and I even got an Ohio driver's license and became on official OH resident! I have never had to be this independent. And yet the theme of my life this summer has been dependence. In every area of my life something has been messed up, or extremely challenging or just not what I expected and over and over again I have had God remind me to be dependent on Him and by extension, other people....like roommates and parents :) The most obvious example was the physical pain I went through this summer.

I had been having constant abdominal pain for about nine months and it had been getting progressively. Finally, I was taken to the ER in the middle of the night while at Young Life camp in New York (perfect timing!). I spent the next two weeks in intense pain and on pain killers around the clock until the did surgery on me. They found out what the problem was and removed the cause of the pain, but I still spent a couple more weeks recovering and being very needy and dependent on my family and friends.

Anyway, today I was dealing with another trying situation and I listened to the song that has been a huge blessing to me this summer as I deal with needing God...or realizing that I need Him...more than ever :)

Enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ciW8r-5kCDY

Making the most of my second day off

So, Cedarville adjusted its dress code recently, making it okay to wear t-shirts to class anytime. (This is bound to make my brother mad since the beginning of his Cedarville career required him to wear khakis and a dress shirt to class every day.)

Today when I was at Cedarville using the gym I walked past a guy wearing this shirt:

It made me wish that t-shirts were banned again.

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The strangest part of my day happened on my drive to Cedarville. I was behind a small white car that had a queen size mattress and a box spring strapped to the top. It looked a lot like this:

The driver kept reaching his hand out to steady them, and I was thinking "This looks like a terrible idea." Unfortunately, I kept following him at 50 mph, which was my terrible idea. All of a sudden the mattress and boxspring flew off the car, the mattress flew into the other lane and the boxspring landed in front of me so I had to swerve suddenly to just barely avoid it. I also had to swerve the other way because the driver had stopped as soon as he realized that he had lost his bed. Praise the Lord that I was paying attention and able to react quickly, otherwise I would have hit something and me and that man would have had trouble sleeping tonight.

Reading List

Today is my first day of my month-long break from school. I am pretty excited about it. Today I spent about 50% of my day sleeping and reading and knitting....all in my bed :)

My goal for this month off is to read some of the things I have wanted to read the last two months but haven't been able to. Pleasure reading gets pushed aside when there are books that you are going to be tested on, or asked to write a 15 page paper about. I was disappointed to learn that this doesn't really improve later in life....when pleasure reading gets put aside for other important things, like parenting :) Someday, I intend to be the most well-read retired person. I can picture me and Sarah sitting in rocking chairs at our nursing home getting caught up on reading.

Anyway, these are the books I am determined to finish during my break:

Synopsis of Psychiatry: This may not sound like pleasure reading to some of you but I am extremely fascinated by mental health. This book was supplementary reading for my psychopathology class this summer and since I didn't have time to fully read it then I am going to do it now. Side note: this 1470 pages long so it will test my willpower.

The Hunger Games: This is hands down the best fiction book I have ever read. I normally hate science fiction/anything that is not realistic. So, I thought that I wouldn't like a book about our world in the future when there is a ruling capitol that forces people from different districts to fight to the death in an arena. But, the writing was so good and the characters were so engaging that I looved this series and was up till 3 or 4 in the morning some nights because I had to keep reading. It definitely brings to mind the times of the gladiators and in some ways doesn't seem that far-fetched in our society. (People with less power and money being oppressed by those with power and money....hmmm, sounds familiar.) I normally don't reread books but this one was too good to read only once, and reading it again will hold me over until the first movie comes out.

Forgotten God by Francis Chan: I have read two great books by Chan (Crazy Love and Erasing Hell) and this book has been recommended to me multiple times so I am finally going to read it.

Hopefully, I will have time to read even more books. One of the nice things about living with an English teacher is that she recommends books to me all the time and has tons of books for me to borrow. Our house is like a library, and even has a children's section :)

Anybody else have any recommendations for my reading list?

The very first one...

Today is the last day of summer quarter....and the first day of my new blog.

If you are reading this blog it's probably because you already know me, but just in case: My name is Faith, I live in Springfield, Ohio but I'm originally from Phoenixville, Pennsylvania. I spent four years in Ohio getting a bachelors degree in social work from Cedarville University. My family and my best friend Sarah had hoped that I would move back to PA after Cedarville but I decided to stay in Ohio for another year to attend grad school at Ohio State and get a masters in social work. It would be more accurate to say that God decided that I should stay in Ohio. I live in a duplex with two wonderful roommates and a couple of great guys next door. Sometimes I get tired of school, but I don't get tired of being involved in Young Life, which was my main reason for staying in Springfield.

I decided to start writing a blog again (I had a blog for four months when I lived in Uganda) because:

1. Some of my favorite people have blogs that I love to read, and they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

2. There are a lot of people that I would love to talk to all the time but I live hundreds of miles away from so this seemed like an easy way to share my life.

3. Once my full-time fall schedule starts up I probably won't get to call my mom multiple times a day (I think I average three right now) so I figured this was the next best way to keep her updated.

Right now I am enjoying two hours of free time before my last class. I am spending it in the library, which is my favorite spot on campus. I'm on the eleventh floor, looking out on downtown Columbus alternating between reading world news online and watching youtube episodes of Judging Amy.

This is my view:

I hope you are also enjoying a beautiful day! I am going to finish watching my social work inspiration :)